A Cake for Alfie

It was definitely not what she expected to discover that night. For when Angie finally managed to get her 21-month old down for the night—a clear victory in their house—she finished tidying up the kitchen and was thinking she might even go to bed early herself.  Until, that is, she heard the knock at the door.

With her husband out for the evening, and having just moved to the community a few weeks earlier—to say nothing of expecting their second child in just a matter of weeks–Angie was understandably hesitant to open the door.  But the knocking kept on, persistently so for over half an hour, in fact.  Until suddenly there was another sound and looking down the stairway from where she sat upstairs—cell phone in hand to call for help if needed—she saw a note pushed under the door.

And when she got up the courage to creep down the stairs to retrieve it, here is what it said:

“Hi you made a cake for my son Marcus once and it was very nice. Where we live we had a flood and everybodys belonging got ruined.  A 6 yr old boys birthday is on Saturday and all of his presents was ruined to.  We would be very grateful if you could bake him a cake.  Please contact me Beverly. Thank  you.”

Angie had no idea who Beverly was, but quickly figured out that she must have been a neighbor who had mistaken her family for the one who lived in the university-provided house before them. So she rang Beverly up on the phone number she had listed to let her know what had happened.  Only whether it was her Texas accent falling on decidedly English ears or not, Beverly didn’t seem to understand at all that Angie wasn’t the same person who had baked the cake for her son.

Instead, Beverly launched into telling her about the flood and how the little neighbor boy, Alfie, needed a cake for his party on Saturday and that he loves Transformers. So Angie agreed to make the cake and drop it off, only to discover that Beverly wasn’t a neighbor at all, but lived on the other side of town from where they had driven over just to track down the “cake maker.”

Now having been fortunate to sample her wares numerous times, I can testify that Angie is quite a good cook and baker indeed, but our daughter will be the first to tell you that her baking is very homey and she is not at all a cake-decorator. In her own words, in fact, she’s tried it a few times and she always has “way more ambition than skill,” with the efforts usually ending up with her “in a panic over a piping bag.”

Still, Angie and her husband Steve, along with their 21-month old, Jed, spent most of one day that week shopping for a Transformers action figure and cake decorating supplies and ingredients, and then baking a four-layer cake, making the icing and decorating it—a project that turned into a 15-hour operation, in fact, stretching late into the night.


And when they took the cake to Beverly on the following day, she then found out that the woman who had lived in their home before them had actually been a part of a network called “Free Cakes for Kids” in which amateur bakers make cakes for kids in need.  What’s more, Beverly and her husband could not have been nicer, and even invited Angie and Steve to the birthday party on Saturday if they could come.

Angie’s “take on the cake” is worth repeating, however, for she summed up well what it means to follow the Spirit’s promptings when they may come in our lives.

As I was making this cake, I felt like God was in the midst of it, trying to teach me to live more in him. One thing I kept feeling was surrender— I hadn’t planned or volunteered to make this cake and I had little skill to do it, but it somehow just fell into my lap, and it seemed that God had put it before me. Jesus says that he stands at the door and knocks! And in my experience he keeps on knocking!

And it reminded me that our lives are meant to be about opening up to God and surrendering to his purposes for us, purposes that we don’t always see coming, things he wants to do in and through us. I get so obsessed with trying to plan out my life and organize and schedule everything, but in this cake the Lord reminded me that my life is really to be about getting caught up in the life that he would rather have me live.   

 Something else God showed me was his heart for us, a heart of immense and reckless love. One of Jed’s favorite stories is the parable of the lost sheep, where the shepherd is relentless in his search to find the one missing sheep out of a hundred. It’s a foolish thing the shepherd does, to spend all that time and effort on one little sheep.  Jesus asks, “Which one of you wouldn’t leave the ninety-nine sheep out on the field and go after the one missing sheep?” I think it’s a rhetorical question— that’s crazy, none of us would do that. Which of us busy moms wouldn’t drop everything and spend 15 hours baking a Transformers birthday cake for a kid you’ve never met? Were it not for the grace of God, I wouldn’t.

 But this is the kind of God we have, one who loves us recklessly and personally, and goes to great effort to seek us. This is what God does. He reminded me of that in the hours I spent making a cake for a little kid on a rough council estate across town, a kid I’ll probably never meet. The life and kind of love God calls us towards is one a reckless love, one of abandon, of giving up ourselves and our plans for others.

 I think that, God, in his mercy, is using this Transformers cake to do more of the work of transforming me.”

It all reminds me of what St. Paul said long ago, namely, that we are God’s handiwork, “created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which He prepared in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2.10).  I can’t help but wonder, in fact, just how great it might be if we were all transformed into folks with hearts ready to serve others, even when it takes us out of comfort zones.

Maybe then, like they used to say of the original Transformers, we too would be “more than meets the eye.”

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1 Response to A Cake for Alfie

  1. Nancy Schulz says:

    Yes, I’m late on reading all these – GREAT – and LOVE the cake – Angie did a fantastic job!!!!

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